Unpleasant experiences

Unpleasant experiences,
are first of all unpleasant.

Often they have to do with
borders that are crossed
and engaging in conflict.

What you can learn from them:

Where are the borders?
How do I better spot the borders?

What are my borders?
What do I do when somebody crosses them?

What is the end result of engaging in conflict for me?
How can I better avoid conflict?
How do I better provoke conflict?

Watching green grass grow

This year I started a YouTube channel.
Now I spend quite some time looking at viewing statistics.
It gives me insight into what is happening with my videos.

At some point however it is like green grass.
You don’t need to sit next to it and watch it for it to grow.